H: How do we bring up children if we can’t have rules, because whatever they do is down to their karma?
B: Bringing up children teach them right and wrong and the balance of right and wrong (karma – what sow and reap) and leave it. Because nothing you do will happen , only God’s Will will happen. Based on ego all studying, books, religions and knowlege is a house of cards and will collpase. When Akal Purakh (Immortal God) really gives you the Divine Command (Hukam) one on one then man made rights and wrongs all collapse.
Nanak left everything to follow that Hukam. So do we – same law will apply. So as fast as you can stop loving with sense of ‘its mine’ and start loving with sense of selfless service (service to others) and respect God in everything.