B: What is a marriage?  It is an illusion.   How you take how HE keeps you, that is your loving devotional worship.  We (Baba ji and MATAata) are out of selfish attachment-Maya  (family attachments).  Everything we know and think is right we have learnt.  But to go back to the Source (SatNaam) we have to unlearn, to unwind and become simple and free.